“I’m grateful: for our pots of food, our metal spoons, and all these humans around me, tethers to this life, holding me fast. I hear myself murmuring out loud, ‘there is nothing better for a person than to eat and drink.’” Tamar Adler, Feast on Your Life: Kitchen Meditations for Every Day, Scribner, 2025
Category: Books
What makes ‘Good Food’ good?
It’s gone — one of my favourite restaurants shuttered without warning. For years my son and I included it on our short list of go-to local places providing affordable and delicious food. My son’s nose for pretence is sharp, in food and life. The authenticity of this family-run business hidden behind an unassuming shop-front in…
Nigel Slater on ‘mopping my plate’
“To this day, I mop my plate, though probably more out of appreciation than social conscience. I push the bread around my plate, leaving swirls and swishes of cream and rust, like a Howard Hodgkin painting. Every droplet and puddle is sponged up by the dough, every pool and rivulet caught in the soft, white…
Linda Murray Berzok on Family Recipes
“Family recipes offer us a glimpse into our past – a way to understand who we are by exploring who we were. No wonder they hold such a special place in our hearts and minds. They serve up real connection and history no matter how far we’ve travelled since we first tasted these dishes.” Linda…
Tucci on soup
“I am a soup lover. To me soup may be the greatest culinary invention. It can be made with two ingredients or two hundred and twenty-two ingredients. It can be served hot or cold. It can be cooked fast or slow. It can be eaten for breakfast, lunch, or dinner. It can be vegetarian, vegan,…
A.A. Gill on dinner parties
“The real sin of dinner parties is that they usurp the most basic human goodness of hospitality and succour and turn it into a homunculus of social climbing. But they also confuse two distinct occupations: cooks and chefs. Cooks do it at home for love. Chefs do it in public for money. Dinner parties are…
The benign intimacy of a spoon
“A spoon is naturally soft in the mouth, rounded and smooth, and with that comes a certain gentleness. There is tenderness to a spoon … A spoon is hospitable … A spoon can do little harm.” Nigel Slater, A Thousand Feasts (2024)
Crumbs: a sense of closure
“Crumbs are precious. The last, minuscule fragment of cake or cookies or toast. Diminutive, but not insignificant. How anyone can leave them on the plate is beyond me. Mopping the final vestiges of cake with a damp finger and bringing them gently to the lips is as important to me as the first forkful. It…
E.B. White on kitchens
At a meeting of the American Society of Industrial Designers in the 1950s, one of the speakers made the assertion that “the kitchen as we know it today is a dead dodo.” In response, White offered this: I think the kitchen, like the raccoon, is a dead dodo only if you choose to shoot it…
Ephron on certainty
What I love about cooking is that after a hard day, there is something comforting about the fact that if you melt butter and add flour and then hot stock, it will get thick! It’s a sure thing! It’s a sure thing in a world where nothing is sure; it has a mathematical certainty in…
Capon on the pleasures of drudgery
I despise recipes that promise results without work, or success without technique. … Technique must be acquired, and, with technique, a love of the very processes of cooking. No artist can work simply for results; he must also like the work of getting them. Not that there isn’t a lot of drudgery in any art…
Writing about food: celebrating the trivial
I am a glutton for good food writing. At its best it can transport me to far-away tables, tempt me with new tastes, prod my memories of heritage and family, confront prejudices and sharpen my sense of justice. With nothing but words, my imagination is fed and my living is challenged. I am richer for…
How to cook like a man
A few years back I read Daniel Duane’s book How to Cook Like a Man. I was intrigued by the title. The truth is, as I look back, the cooks I have most respected are women. While their gifts and technical skills were often admirable, what I came to value was their innate understanding of…
Stephanie’s obsession
‘He’s obsessed!’ I heard a friend of mine described that way recently, behind his back. It’s a powerful tag. Most often it infers dysfunction. Proponents of that holy grail — work-life balance — paint obsession a failing, a roadblock in the pursuit of health and wholeness. But I do wonder, does obsession deserve a little more credit? I am…
Capon on the taste of eternity
“To be sure, food keeps us alive, but that is only its smallest and most temporary work. Its eternal purpose is to furnish our sensibilities against the day when we shall sit at the heavenly banquet and see how gracious the Lord is. Nourishment is necessary only for a while; what we shall need forever…
Capon on Feasting
“Let us fast — whenever we see fit, and as strenuously as we should. But having gotten that exercise out of the way, let us eat! Festally, first of all, for life without occasions is not worth living. But ferially, too, for life is so much more than occasions, and its grand ordinariness must never…
Barnes on stove-splash
“In China it’s taken as a compliment if the table cloth immediately surrounding your place is, by the end of the meal, a site of major spillage. … The same principle applies — without any shadow of ambiguity — to cookbooks. The more decorated their pages are with stove-splash, peel-drip, edible Rorschach stains, oil starbursts, beetroot…
Conrad on recipe books
“Of all the books produced since the remote ages by human talents and industry those only that treat of cooking are, from a moral point of view, above suspicion. The intention of every other piece of prose may be discussed and even mistrusted, but the purpose of a cookery book is one and unmistakable. Its…
On food critics
Food critics can be a pompous lot. I have said before that much restaurant criticism is little more than posturing: ‘Look at me! Don’t I write well and with such culinary wit!’ The truth is, as one interested in food and restaurant culture, I find most reviews unhelpful. Granted, jealousy could be a factor. A prominent…
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