Nouwen on the table

7209‘Although the table is a place for intimacy, we all know how easily it can become a place of distance, hostility, and even hatred.  Precisely because the table is meant to be an intimate place, it easily becomes the place we experience the absence of intimacy.  The table reveals the tensions among us.  When husband and wife don’t talk to each other, when a child refuses to eat, when brothers and sisters bicker, when there are tense silences, then the table becomes hell, the place we least want to be.  The table is the barometer of family and community life.  Let’s do everything possible to make the table the place to celebrate intimacy.’

H. Nouwen, Meditation: The Barometer of Our Lives 


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